While parents may prefer aging in place at home, that may not always be the wisest choice. Before the need arises, take time to talk with parents about the senior living options available and consider these tips for a successful senior living conversation.
Tip 1. Don’t procrastinate having the senior living conversation
The worst time to have the senior living conversation is under duress after an illness or injury when seniors and families are already upset and emotional. Instead, sit down and talk with parents when they are physically and mentally healthy about their plans and desires, and the possibility of moving to a senior living community.
For example, during the senior living conversation, look at different scenarios that could occur, even if they seem far-fetched at the time. Injuries like broken hips from a fall, debilitating illnesses, and memory loss are among the possibilities, but there is also lifestyle to consider. As caring for a home becomes more difficult for seniors, the opportunity to live carefree may become more attractive. Learn more in our blog, “5 Great Reasons to Age in Place at an Independent Living Community.”
Tip 2. Include all stakeholders
The senior living conversation should be inclusive so parents and siblings can share in the decision-making process and help form a plan. Families who live near each other can easily meet and talk in person, while those who are spread out can plan a Zoom meeting instead.
A get-together, whether in person or online, allows everyone to express their opinion, offer help, and feel respected. It also enables compromise between siblings and parents who have different views and desires.
A good way to set the stage for the senior living conversation is to create a brief agenda that allows each person the time to speak while keeping the conversation on a positive track. The goal is to agree on a solution that works best for parents while also considering the needs of children. As noted in the caregiver.org article, “Holding a Family Meeting,” the key is to cooperate and reach a consensus while recognizing the opinions of every family member.
Tip 3. Explore senior living possibilities
As the senior living conversation progresses, spend time exploring senior living communities in the preferred area. Many people aren’t aware of the huge changes that have occurred in senior living over the past several decades and that what used to be called “old folks’ homes” have been transformed into healthy, vibrant communities offering modern, private accommodations.
For example, at Ganton’s Countryside, residents can choose from spacious apartments, condos, or villas designed to accommodate seniors safely at different levels of care. Residents also have the peace of mind that comes with knowing that help is always close by and that they can quickly move to a higher level of care if needed.
Also look into amenities like activities (check out the monthly calendars), dining quality and options, onsite community spaces like libraries with computers, game and craft rooms, hair salon and barber services, walking paths, movie theaters, and other features and services offered. Many communities also welcome pets so parents can keep Fluffy or Fido with them when they move.
Keep in mind that while aging in place at home may be the first preference, it may not be the safest. Modern senior living communities are constructed to meet the needs of seniors as they age and are totally accessible for everyone, including those using assistive devices like walkers and wheelchairs.
Tip 4. Discuss the costs upfront
An important part of the senior living conversation is the cost of senior living, which many families may believe is greater than the cost of in-home care.
According to the 2025 Genworth Cost of Care Survey, the national monthly median cost of a full-time non-medical caregiver is $6,673, which is just for care and doesn’t include home expenses like mortgage, insurance, utilities, groceries, and upkeep. On the other hand, the national monthly median cost of assisted living is just $6,200 and includes a range of amenities, activities, and services, nutritious chef-inspired meals, around-the-clock security and assistance, and a welcoming community of friends.
Another aspect to consider during the senior living conversation is the shortage of qualified home care workers. The commonwealthfund.org article, “Addressing the Shortage of Direct Care Workers: Insights from Seven States,” notes that from 2022 to 2035 the need for nursing assistants is expected to increase by 48%, personal care aides by 43%, and home health aides by 42%, likely surpassing the availability of workers.
Culminate the senior living conversation with a tour of Countryside. For more information about Countryside, please call Margaret Nagel at (517) 206-5000 or download our brochure to learn about our care levels, cost, and amenities.
